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Breaking Generational Curses and Embracing Inner Healing
Have you ever considered the weight of generational curses and their impact on our lives? Join us in this heartfelt episode of "The Girls Restroom" as we celebrate our eighth milestone and express our gratitude for your unwavering support since our launch on June 12th. We dive deep into the subject of breaking generational curses within the Black community, focusing particularly on the aftermath of the crack era. This episode emphasizes the importance of self-care practices like drawing, writing, and connecting with nature to foster healing and personal growth. We also reflect on the challenges faced by our parents and the remarkable strides our generation is making to overcome these hurdles, cherishing the nostalgic elements of the 90s that hold a special place in our hearts.
Through poignant personal stories, we explore the journey of reconnecting with our inner child as a path to self-love and inner healing. I share my experience of listening to the dreams and aspirations of my younger self, Kelvisha, and the profound impact of adult influences on our self-belief. We underscore the necessity of nurturing children's dreams and providing them with the tools for success while grounding their expectations in reality. This conversation is a call to honor our vulnerabilities and past traumas as we endeavor to create a healthier and more authentic self.
Motherhood reshapes our worldviews, and in this episode, we delve into how it has deepened my empathy and love for my son. We tackle the complexities of single parenting, the importance of co-parenting, and redefining gender roles for a brighter future. I share personal anecdotes about mindful parenting and the significance of setting boundaries and advocating for an equitable distribution of responsibilities in relationships. We also discuss the broader societal issues of absent fathers in Black families and the strength required to raise boys into responsible men. Wrapping up this powerful episode, we highlight the importance of self-love, setting boundaries, pursuing dreams, and embracing healing to break free from stagnant environments and create a positive legacy for future generations.
Welcome to the girls restroom. Y'all would not believe like what we are on episode 8. Episode 8. I have recorded 8 episodes. Like, if ain't nobody proud of me, bitch, y'all proud of me. We launched last month, june 12th, and here we are. Like for the supporters that have been holding it down with me, who've been in the bathroom with me venting and healing and learning and growing. Most importantly, I'm so grateful for you. Y'all keep me going, y'all always screenshot when y'all listen to me, and it be at the most random times, and y'all post it and let me know, like, girl, I fuck with this and I really, really, really, really, really, really appreciate it and I will continue to support you guys and being that big sister to y'all, as y'all are just walking with me through this journey and I'm just so excited for everything that I have coming forward with the girls restroom. So let's get into some things, okay. So this episode, oh, thank you again. I said all that just to say like, okay, let's get it. No, for real, thank y'all, I love y'all so much. And, bitch, we here. Episode eight welcome to the girls restroom.
Speaker 1:Okay, today's episode is breaking generational curses and it's so important to break those generational curses that we have as black people, to in our families. And I feel like this era of, like the millennial era, is really been doing a good job at that. Because our parents had to. They were so rough on us and so unfair to us as a whole because they had to grow, grow each other up, because they grew up in that crack era, if that makes sense. Um, a lot of people, you know family, everybody. Families are different. I'm not saying all black people come from the same struggle. However, we do with certain things and it's so important for and you know, and those issues are way bigger than us, so it's so important for us to break away from those things or whatever.
Speaker 1:So, of course, I always start the show with a little advice on how to move forward and how to get your head in the game. So I always, always, always, always let people know to connect with their inner self and find hobbies like drawing, writing, um, just going for a walk, uh, just any little thing that's out of the ordinary that will find you peace. If it finds you peace, do that because, baby, you need time for yourself, you need time to sit, think and release and do all the things. And I know some people be funny and be like you need to go touch grass a lot, but don't go touch some grass. Take them little funky ass socks off them shoes and go put your feet and them toes between some grass and feel grounded with the universe and god and what he, you know, put on this earth to you know you use the tools that he put on this earth for us to use it for, like you know, grass is green and it's all in. It will always be green on the other side.
Speaker 1:If you choose to talk for the beginning of the show, okay, so, um, I really want to dig back into the childhood trauma of things when I was speaking about, like how we grew up and the things that we went through as children because of the our parents having to raise, each, raise each other in that era. It was a really nasty era for the millennials growing up and um, because, like I did discuss, it was around the crack era where our parents had to, you know, figure some shit out and it was just different for black people at that time, like black men was broken from homes, um, moms was out on drugs, you know. All kind of crazy things just kind of started happening in the 80s. That kind of like affected us today because, you know, like I spoke on previous episodes, before trauma does pass down. However, we are now to the point where we're recognizing that and we want to and we're the shift, we're the switch, and also I feel like we are a good balance too, because we had, we lived those times in the 90s where everything was just beautiful, golden and just like, ah, thriving. And then now we're seeing, like so many different changes and what's going on around us today in America and we're actually investing in things to get like our DNA and find out our history and, you know, keeping things like that alive, and I think that is a beautiful thing and I think that we should continue to do that.
Speaker 1:But in order to, you know, get to those type of spaces, we have to be good within ourselves. So back to self-love and inner healing. Inner healing, and recently I literally have started, like, speaking to Kilvisha and for those of you who don't know, who listen to my podcast, because you stumbled across it and don't know me as Coco the goat or Kelly or Kilvisha, whatever you know me by, kilvisha is the name that I was born with honey, but of course I'm an Aries so I had to rename myself because that just didn't work. I keep her protected and um, but that is part of the kind of the reason why I rebranded myself to a whole nother type of girl, but that's another story for another day. However, I keep Kelvisha guarded and protected because Kelvisha is very vulnerable. Kelvisha is the one that loves her and will ride for you or die for you and sometimes will put you on the front line, but put herself on the front line before for you, before I do myself, but I'm, you know, I'm over that like I've healed past those traumas or whatever and healed that.
Speaker 1:But I had to start speaking to that little girl and start and getting back into that imagination space that that little girl had and wished, that she wanted and this, this and that and third, and just kind of heal her and listen to her and be like, oh my god, let me, let me take a step back, let me think, let me meditate and let me like, listen to that little child that's in me, that wants this or wants that or didn't deserve this or didn't deserve that, and I feel like it's such a beautiful thing, like you have to recognize all of the things that you went through, which were good and bad, that made you who you are today. And once you, like, get to the point where you recognize, then you're on the right steps. You recognize, heal from that and then you take accountability on what you can take accountability on like throughout the whole journey, like, because it's just not that little look your, your little girl energy can be you when you were in high school. As we get older, every day, as we get wiser, the little girl in us grows as well. So we're healing different parts of our childhood and I'm literally just now reaching to that toddler, that that girl, like, oh my god, she was just so dreamy, she thought she had it all figured out, she was the boss, she was, you know, like I'm gonna have this, I'm gonna have that judging grown people like, why are you like I'm going to have this, I'm going to have that Judging grown people Like, why are you doing this? Because I'm not going to do that when I'm older. Like you know, just so much smarter, so much determined and ambitious. And me every word I said, because that's what I said.
Speaker 1:I think it took adults around me to be like, instead of adults around me at the time feeding into that energy and reassuring me that I can be those things and, just you know, pouring into me all the good things they didn't out of fear because, oh well, just wait. Like, have you ever like remember, like, take it back to your childhood and you remember? Like when you said something to an adult or something like when I grow up, I want to be this, and they say, oh well, just you wait, just you wait and find out. Like I don't even do that to children these days like, especially students and stuff. That's like graduating high school. They're like some they may be like I'm ready to graduate, blah, blah, blah. And I'm like, yeah, graduation is a beautiful and emotional thing for some. Not everybody has the emotions I have. However, I always tell them live in the moment. You don't get that time back, so live in the moment and enjoy it, enjoy him.
Speaker 1:And instead of people telling me that, versus speaking out of fear and speaking down on me and my downfall already because of their situation or what they got going on, I don't do that as a parent, like as a parent case, and tell me I want to do this, I want to do that and I'm like, okay, well, let's do it Like you know, and I do the fundamental work that that's behind, that comes behind it like the foundation of it, and I let him know like, okay, well, if you want to do this, you gotta do that. You need to know how to do this. You need to be you know, like, you need to know how to count to this. You need to know how to do this. Well, when you go to school, you, you know, I'm laying out the groundwork. Okay, that's what you want to be, then let's be it like we're gonna be, we're gonna be the damn greatest at it.
Speaker 1:The only thing I've very much in like, came to his senses about is like he'd be like mama, I want to be Batman, I'm gonna go save the world. Like okay, okay, baby, like you can save the world in so many different ways, but batman doesn't exist, baby. Like batman, you even put on no cape and no leggings and no belt. Honey, go jump building the building chat. It just ain't gonna work here in america. Like I don't know, I don't know, honey, they gonna put you in a site war case, and like it ain't gonna work. But we're gonna figure out how you know, realistically, we can get you to save the world so that it starts from there.
Speaker 1:And I think me becoming a mom is really what pushed me into loving that little girl more, because I see so much of myself in my son and it's like literally I have that little girl in human boy form, if that makes sense, like when I'm speaking to him and I'm telling him things and I remember that I was a kid that kind of traumatized me or either stuck with me when my parents told me or elders told me when I was a kid. I am very much careful what I say and even like very much careful what I say and what he hear when I know he's around and listening. So I that's just a whole whole nother level chat. So just like with everything else, I really truly feel like breaking generational curses. Start with us. I can't sit here and tell you exactly what to break and what not to um, because I'm not there in everyone's home to know exactly what it is, but I can relate to my situation and that's just and it's the smallest things.
Speaker 1:Like I have mom guilt sometimes because I feel like I've always wanted to raise my baby in a home with the family and now that he's old enough, he he told me the other day, like mommy, I'm a, I'm a big boy like you gonna need another baby soon because I'm a big boy and I also want a new dad. And I was just like so heartbroken because he don't have those things and I feel like I failed him in a way, because I grew up and you know what, my parents co-parenting, but going over to my dad's house, he had this, his first wife, and then they divorced or whatever, and then he had his second wife and it's just like I never looked less a look down on my mom for being less of a woman because she wasn't his wife. However, the family dynamic that I have on my dad's side in home was very different from what I grew up with within my home and it's a lot of trauma, a lot of personalities, a lot of different, just things that I don't want my child to go through or see. And I'm relating it back to that because it's firsthand, like that's where I was majority of the time in my mom's custody. So it's not like you know, I'm not like, really not. I'm not bashing her at all or saying anything, you know, negative because she did a damn good job. None of us been to jail, none of us have been, you know, in in situations where you know we just ain't right, you know so.
Speaker 1:And as a single mom, like with with different baby daddy, she did the damn thing, she did what she could do with the help of my grandmother. So, immediately, two strong women. But then sometimes I have to kind of break that down a little bit. When I get around my dad, because I'm so independent, like you know, when I get on my dad's side, it's just like I do have a softer girl era in a way, because I don't have to work so hard or be so hard around it, because I'm daddy's girl, you know. So it's just, it's different from growing up in a dynamic, but I've always felt left out when I coming around on like the black sheet or not really wanted, regardless of anything. So I've always wanted that different from my child.
Speaker 1:And I don't know it's, it's hard, it's hard, I will say so, but in my situation, however, I really couldn't help that the dad wasn't in the home because, you know, like you know, god needed him a little bit more than I did, yeah, so you know that's that. On that, however, like it's not too late, it's not too late to make it happen and eventually I will it. That's like my dream goal is to be like a wife, like that's the end goal to be a healthy, wealthy, happy wife with a happy life and a beautiful family and to give my child exactly what he wanted. Because I will say, in my mom's house we were never lonely, never, never lonely. Child like I never wanted kids because of how many kids my mama had and I seen everything she had to go through. And I remind you, I'm my mom's only girl and the oldest, so it's just, it was just like oh no, this ain't for me, girl, then I always gotta stop babysitting. Uh-uh, oh no, no, no, no, it just it wasn't for me.
Speaker 1:Um, another generational thing curse I feel like I want to break is I don't know, I don't know that was. I think that's like my main one, because that breaks it down in so many areas. And then I can speak on it too, because when it comes to black families not having men involved and men in there, it really breaks up our strength. But I will say you like, I'm raising a man and well, I'm raising a boy who will be a man, who become a man one day, and what I won't do is baby him. Like don't get it twisted, that's my baby boy and I love him to death and he's such a mama's boy. However, I in, like, install and pour greatness into him and I pray over him and I let him know, like, even at this early age, like, like how to appreciate women, but also how to stand on your own, like you are a boy. You are not a man, but you are a boy and this is how you need to handle this and handle this.
Speaker 1:Out of this you know situation and there's little stuff. Like it was two little girls playing one day and, of course, him being a kid, like he wanted to play with one of their toys or something it was. It was like that noodle that you play with in the pool. They were at the pool and it was only two and I was like Kacen, relax, baby. You see it's two girls right there and it's only two noodles. I was like it's okay if you hang around them or whatever, but allow them to play with their own toys.
Speaker 1:Like just little stuff, like that, just showing him what it means to be a gentleman and how to be a gentleman is really important to me and to not hinder him like he growing up, like he's my man, because I will say that's what is wrong with a lot of millennials this era well, I mean hell, it is the millennial millennials, like I mean, you know, it's our generation, but this generation is the men don't know how to be the men, and the man and me, I feel like what a man is to me is someone who is very in tune with their masculine energy but also has good balance, like, knows, like it's okay for me to be emotional as a man because I, but, however, like and I'm not a 50-50 girl, but I do believe in, like you know, 70-30 for sure, because that's a whole nother topic for a whole nother thing, but I'm just not a 50-50 girl Like I seen my dad bust his ass and take care of his family, take care of his wife, sometimes put his wife before his children, and it's like no shade or anything. But you know, like, handle business with his wife and then be like all right, let's get these kids together. You know what I'm saying. So it's really important for me to raise my son to do the same and, to date, someone who believes in the same thing. However, who's appreciative of the sense of independence that I do have? Because I do understand that shit can happen and it could unfold at any minute and your man might need you to be his backbone. That's what we, as women, are supposed to be. So, yeah, if my man just falls short and life hit him hard, I want to have my business on the side, thriving, doing what it needs to do. Therefore, we good baby, get, get your shit together and let's get it bad popping. Like let let's figure this out. Like I got you on that end. Like we good, we done, handled that. Now let's get on the roll. Let's plan Like teamwork, like when it comes to me and relationships, like that's what I want, I want teamwork.
Speaker 1:Like I do what I need to do in relationships as a woman, and I'm really good at that. I just don't take no bullshit and I'm not gonna take any bullshit. And it starts like I love me, I love the hell out of me. Okay, so why would I allow you to come in and you want me to pay the bill? You want, you want me to pay all the bills. You said, cook, give you some booty at night, what like? First of all, that don't even sound right. They're not pissing me off already while you sit and play the game all day, like just to say I got a man and it works for who it works for, but it don't work. I don't want it to work over here for me. That ain't something that I ever work over here for me.
Speaker 1:Will I just sit around and just be on my ass and be like no, this is teamwork, like I do understand it ain't what it used to be back in the day, where the woman just sits at home, be this beautiful little housewife, the stupid little fool. Why the man go bust his ass at work and do what I gotta do, take care, you know what I'm saying. I get that part because I wouldn't want to do that, just because of the simple fact, like I said, like I want to just live soft. I want to make money doing what I want to do, because I do love money and I do like the finer things in life and I do like to pamper myself and I'm you know, and I don't like to sit around and wait on nobody like. So that's a personality thing for me, like I don't like to sit around and wait on nobody. Like so that's a personality thing for me, like I don't like to sit and wait on shit, but, um, however, I do feel like a man needs to play. I'm I have, you know, some sense of tradition in there, like, uh-uh, like we can modernize it. Like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:Like I said 70, 30, 70 yeah, that's 30. I had to do the math and the math wouldn't be math and sometimes, but yes, 70, 30, I'm cool with a little 70, 30, but like that, 50, 50, shit, uh-uh. And I because it'll never be 50, 50 in a woman's world literally like, why am I paying half of this, half of that, and gotta give you whole ass others? Good, coochie cat, like bitch, what you think? I'm finna, sit here and pay half the bills, go to work all day and then and raise kids and carry them. That is a lot of work. And it's not 50, 50 when it comes to a woman, because a man doesn't have to go through half the shit we have to go through as women, emotionally and mentally. So it's just like no, me, me alone, being a woman, has already won in some of those cases.
Speaker 1:So I dare you, like you half and half this shit over there, like I'm not a half and half girl. I'm sorry, I'm not better than nobody. I don't judge the ones that do do it, because you might have a certain point that I am, you know, like just not seeing and maybe you can just bring it to life. My my feelings about it probably still won't change, however, no, it's just not for me and I'm like I said, you know we don't judge over here. We like to talk about things. So if you are a 50 50 girl and you like, let me write this, let me write this speech because I want to express why I'm a 50 50 girl and why it makes sense to me and why it makes sense to my household and why it's working for me. Like I am so open to know why and how, and not judge or try to push you into leaning into. You know what I believe in, however, I do and, like I said, like it could balance out for some household. It could be some stuff that I'm not remembering or forgetting about or whatever. You know, blah, blah, blah. But I just feel like 50 50 is for roommates and you know, are we together? Are we a roommate like I'm coming through with you know what I need to come through with something? Yeah, I don't um.
Speaker 1:When it comes to breaking these generational curses, like I said, it does start with yourself and it starts with healing within and accountability. So remember that. And also recognition. You have to recognize what it is that you are going through in order to heal those things and you can't. You you have to avoid setbacks. Setbacks will be the biggest, is the biggest fucking target it'll be at your head when you are practicing these things and want to get better and want to do more in life and break those curses and break out of what you can do, like even with me moving away from home.
Speaker 1:I feel like it was a curse that I broke out of because everyone there is so stagnant. Everyone there is working in this job or that job and happy with it and okay with staying at those job, but I'm like I want to be a business owner, I want to take risks, I want to do this, I want to do that, and I don't know anyone in my family that has moved away and done that, besides the aunt that had moved here to do that from where she grew up and where she was from. But she moved sort of back home because, like, her mom grew up here and you know family and stuff. So it's just not for me. So it's another thing that I wanted to do. I wanted, um, I did not finish college so therefore I wanted to. I am going back in the fall y'all so hey, but that's another story for a different day.
Speaker 1:But I also wanted to prove that I don't. I don't have to be stuck in a warehouse working, sweating, uh, wearing these thirsty ass men off all day, knees hurt and back hurt on the steel ass, like I don't have this, don't have to be my life for me to get money and for me to be successful and for me to live in my birth right, like that just wasn't my thing. And so many people are stuck in those places and haven't figured out low key of what they want to do and have the talent and have the skills but are so afraid to step out and walk on faith and follow God in it and it's like you are fearful of what you already know is going to happen. You know it's going to be a time where you fall flat on your ass, but you're gonna have to get up. So prepare yourself for that, prepare yourself for it and just fucking do it. You know what's coming, you know what's gonna come.
Speaker 1:We all fall and or come up short sometimes when it comes to certain things where we're taking risk at like it just is what it is. But if you're stagnant and you're happy with what you, if you're not happy with what you're doing but you're still stuck in there, then you're making the biggest, then that's failure. Like you're making the biggest risk, right then. And there, like you know, like I don't know millennials, we just different. Like we we seen both sides. Like we you know, like I feel like born in the perfect era of things and it's just, it's crazy, it's crazy to see and I'm just kind of happy I'm at this point where I am in the middle of breaking generational curses.
Speaker 1:I also noticed that I'm breaking a generational curse with for my child's father's side of the family because of you know they had like a broken home in sort of a way when he got, you know, into his early preteen ages and um, I'm not trying to like speak too much on the on his situation. However, I know Damien would wish he had the relationship with his mom, like how I have with Kacen, because he's spoken to me about it plenty, of, plenty of times and, you know, eventually, before his life was taken, you know he was in that process of healing that part and you know, getting closer with her. So that was a beautiful thing. I'm happy he, you know, got to do that. But I know, and like he said so many times on, what type of mom he will want for his children and you know, and I mean basically told me like, yeah, I want you to be my mom, but no, really like. So it's a beautiful thing to you know, like to see that I know what he went through and to hear that part of him. But also it's like taken away, because it's like, damn, like Damien was also very close with his father and, uh, daddy's boy too. So it was just like, but our baby don't have that. So it's something Kacen's definitely gonna have to work on and you know he's gonna have to change that and it's gonna be a beautiful thing because it's all gonna come together and I'm just so grateful that God showed up in our life, how he showed up, because without him I wouldn't be where I am today, I wouldn't have.
Speaker 1:And I'm just so grateful for the smallest things my intelligence and my healthy mental like because without this I wouldn't know where to start or how to you know. But it took me, being broken down and feeling like no one was around me, to to to heal that because I had no one to heal me, I had no hero to look up to or look to or cry to or, you know, no one could feel what I was feeling but myself. And I'm so grateful that I had the strength and that God gave me the strength to get up and do what I need to do and to heal. Because, baby, now it didn't take like it did. I'm sorry, it did take a village for me to like. You know, I did have those people that I leaned on like it wasn't so, I wasn't solely alone, even though I felt solely alone. That's depression, but I wasn't solely alone. So shout out to my village.
Speaker 1:Finding your village really, really is is important and you have to stick with your intuition. You can't keep being around people who aren't for you. You have to be there for yourself and take accountability of why you rely on these people who you know are not for you or don't have the best interest for you around you. You have to counsel those people out. You have to counsel those people out and order your healing journey and if you have like abandonment not abandonment issues, like attachment issues, that's something you're gonna have to take accountability on and work on and recognize and let that shit go. Once you let that shit go, and I swear god has something bigger and better. The universe has something like it's moving things around for you. This bigger and better is elevating you and pushing you into a higher frequency. So it's something that you really have to do is just start with exiting. Exiting those cheesy motherfuckers. That's your pizza. You gotta, you gotta get them gone. They gotta go, they have to go.
Speaker 1:So finding your village is another big part of helping with breaking those generational curses and just a lot of you know self-healing that you want to do. And then, like, don't be afraid to enjoy the fruits of your labor, like, like I would tell my brother my brother's graduating next year, this year coming, this is like it's the senior year and enjoy that time, like you have to enjoy every day, because you're not going to get this day back. You're not going to get this day back. The time is so much more precious and it took me losing a lot of people and seeing how life, how short life, could be in order for me to appreciate time. So I'm just grateful for the time that I have here with y'all.
Speaker 1:As you seen, when I started the show off, I was letting you guys know like I love y'all and I'm so grateful and have so much gratitude and I actually sit and enjoy and I go back and listen to my own self and I'm like, yep, I was right about that, and it picks me back up. So this really not only helps me but helps y'all. But it helps me to like be a greater person, like I feel like I'm getting more comfortable every episode with you guys and it's just like the smallest little things I enjoy and I'm taking my time, my you know like to do what I want to do and just enjoying the fruits of my labor, like be so proud of how far you have come and what you did not turn out to be you. It could always be worse. You never know. I don't know y'all situation, just like I don't really know mine, but it could always be worse. So you got to enjoy the fruits of your label, labor and appreciate every moment of the day and live in that moment. Like it's so important to live in that moment.
Speaker 1:And I know this is this sounds like this cheesy, cliche stuff that people say all the time, but I'm telling y'all from my testimony of breaking these things away from me like it started with letting this shit go and if you think about it, if you listen to every episode that I put out in order, how it all is connecting, how it all comes together like you'll be like, ah, you're right, and I started this podcast, my first episode being let that shit go, you know, and talking about my different circumstances and and um issues and you know traumas and stuff that I've been going through a lot that people didn't know about on the back end and do know on the back end or whatever the case may be. But it all starts with letting that shit go. I promise you you have to let that shit go and also don't walk in it and say like I am cursed, I am this and I'm there. No start living in your affirmations. Like I am healing, I am growing every day, I am smart, I am making the right choice, I am walking with the light and I am growing from everything that I have been through. I have no trauma that needs to be healed, because I am constantly healing every day.
Speaker 1:Speak these affirmations into yourself, speak them on your children. Pass that healing energy down. You have to pass that healing energy down. Pray over your babies, because grandma prayer is not going to continue to keep. It's going to work because you know, grandmas are powerful, powerful women, powerful healers, especially the older they are. Ooh, child ain't nothing like a good old black granny child. Big mama them, big mama them got some powerful hands honey.
Speaker 1:So, yes, but and I'm not saying those prayers are gonna stop working but you want to make it more powerful, you want to amplify that, you want to boost it up. Like you know how you. You know you, you had some water and that was good, but you tired honey and you like okay, I want more. What I want more? And eventually you're gonna be like girl, give me the red bull. Like, give me the red bull, give me the b12 shot, give me the b12. I want the b12 be the b12 to the water. You're being nurtured, you're being you, you are being everything. Be the vitamin d, be like what can we do to this water to make it. You know, be the watermelon honey. Watermelon made it's like what 10 percent made. Y'all get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:Be the power in that prayer, keep it going and that's what you, that's what you want to keep passing down like it should. When you rolling a ball of snow, you keep rolling and you rolling and you're rolling. Eventually what get bigger and bigger and bigger, like, treat that like a prayer. When them grandma prayers, take them grandma prayers, and you keep adding on to it. You keep adding on to it. You keep pouring in that cup. You keep pouring in that cup and not only will it keep your children and your families connected and prayed over and protected it, it does something to you too, like it keeps you lifted, it keeps you up, it keeps you motivated, it keeps you on your feet and on your toes and keeps you closer to God. So, with that being said, happy healing to all of you.
Speaker 1:I love y'all and thank you again for tuning in with me and we are breaking these chains together. We are healing, we are respected, we are connected, we are protected. You are in the light of the divine. Nothing that comes your way, you, anything that comes your way. I'm sorry. Anything that comes your way you are strong enough to handle. You will not let things attack you and make you because you are that powerful. You have the power. You are powerful, you are loved and you will get through whatever it is that test that God is giving you. So just be patient, live in the moment and focus and focus on controlling what you can control. Don't try to be superhero. Like me, sometimes you know like we got to break that, like we got to break that, like we gotta break that. Sometimes you gotta surrender, and the sooner you surrender, the sooner things are open up for you. I love y'all. Thank y'all for tuning in. This is episode eight and we are out of the girls restroom.