TheGrlsRestroom
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TheGrlsRestroom
KNOW F*KN YOUR WORTH: recognizing your power!!
Do you know your worth? Join us as we celebrate the 10th episode of "The Girls Restroom" by reflecting on our journey together. From personal healing to connecting with our incredible community, this episode is a heartfelt thank you for your unwavering support. We explore the empowering theme of recognizing our intrinsic value, particularly when faced with stagnation or negativity. Hear my child’s sweet message that adds a touching and personal note to our discussion.
We delve into the importance of self-confidence and self-worth, especially for women. Through personal stories, I highlight how self-love can make a significant impact regardless of societal beauty standards. Also, discover my vision for "The Girls Restroom" as a sacred space where women can connect, share their stories, and uplift one another. As we wrap up, I invite you to follow my rebranded social media accounts, focusing on inspiring and motivating content. Let’s keep growing together, recognizing our worth, and supporting each other in this beautiful journey.
Welcome to the girls restroom. We are back with episode 10, season 1. You know what I'm saying. Puts hair behind the ear. Puts hair behind the ear. Cause what. We are on our 10th episode. Oh my gosh. I know I've been like that for the last four episodes, but you know like I just be feeling so good watching what I worked so hard on playing and you know vision and vision come to pass Like what? 10 episodes. Girl Puts hair behind the ear. Puts hair behind the ear.
Speaker 1:Thank y'all so much For rocking with me. I always want to show people my gratitude. You know what I'm saying. I want to show y'all Nothing but gratitude and let you know that I am so, so, so grateful that you support me, listen to my crazy stories and getting to. You may disagree to some things, but you getting a either somebody that relates to you or another perspective, and I feel like that's all the way important because it's growth. We are growing together. I feel like there's something about me that everybody can relate to. So you know you grow real relatable things, but no, for real. I'm so grateful for you guys for rocking with me, keeping me motivated to put these episodes out and to really just open up to people. So if it's not helping you, it's definitely helping me grow in some ways, because I've always been so, you know, closed in with certain things that need to be spoke about, need to be talked about because of, like, the ups and downs that I've went through and just you know all about my experiences. Like it, I have a voice and I have a power that needs to heal and I am just, you know, taking charge of that honey, so ting. I hate to toot my own horn, but you know so. So no, for real, I have the most gratitude for you guys. So I love y'all so much.
Speaker 1:Anyway, today's episode we are getting into knowing your worth. So let me find out me giving that little speech and hyping myself up. What's the point that? What is the point that I will be getting to today in today's episode? That was not planned. Actually, today I am freestyling. So if y'all hear like it's because your girl was like you know that's the episode that I need to just kind of speak from my mind, spirit and just you know well, let spirit guide me into what you guys need to hear. So I'm feeling real good. I'm feeling real good. My baby starts school in about two weeks and it's an exciting depressing time Not depressing but like bittersweet, that's the word Because we ain't never depressed over here. We moving in light champ. So things are moving pretty quick for me, but I've been very, very consistent with getting these episodes out to you guys and really just you know, in my vibe.
Speaker 1:Okay, so, knowing your worth, of course, I want to start off by giving my. You know I always lead with my heart, so that's my way of saying things that I always start these episodes like well, let me get my serious. No, let me lead with my heart. So leading with my heart is like the same. Well, I tell you all this after every single episode. If you've listened to more than one, you know, or all of them, you know, at the end I always go out with affirmations. So I want to go out with affirmations. So I want to go in with affirmations and excuse me y'all, I'm so sorry. I want to lead with my heart and go in with affirmations and I want to say you are powerful, you are loved, you are connected, you are connected, you are respected and you are one of a kind, you are worthy. So that's how we gonna start the episode. That's how we coming, that's how powerful we are coming.
Speaker 1:Okay, um, what really pushed me to know my worth is when I got sick and tired of being sick and tired. Sometimes you kind of just be in a moment where you've just been so stagnant for so long. You know you should be doing better than this, is that? And third, but you're not taking accountability for it because you want to blame your thing and everybody else around you because it just easier and it's a little bit more comforting. Like I feel like not knowing our worth kind of sits in that realm of stagnant funk and like you know all, just all negative things.
Speaker 1:So I feel like a lot of stuff may not even a lot of that, may not even be your energy, like a lot of bags of that may not even be your energy, like a lot of bags you carry may not even be your energy, just stuff that people who are, who don't know necessarily their worth and stuck in their own situations and kind of just want to project shit on to you, kind of like a chain. Like you know how you got one bad apple in the crew, in the pot full of, or in the bowl full of fruits. You got one bad apple with mold on it and it's touching this apple, then, oh my god, that one has mold and then this one has mold, like that. It's like a domino effect for sure. So and that's what negative energy does. And again, y'all know me like everything starts with self.
Speaker 1:So I do feel like how are you truly happy if you're not truly happy? You get what I'm saying, like there's a big difference between being happy by like being happy in the moment and truly, genuinely waking up full of peace and happiness. Like it's like it can be an emotional thing or it can be a lifestyle, and I know some of y'all probably like what happiness is definitely a lifestyle. When you're happy, things around you are clean, when things around you are clean, what are you serious right now? Yeah, I'll give you some when I'm finished recording. You want to come? Tell him? Yeah, all right, tell him I love my mommy. Guys, okay, y'all I was.
Speaker 1:I also had to look at my screen too, because I was like I was he was doing and saying what he said. Like yeah, I heard you and went like my mommy, my mommy ears heard you, but, like business, lady ears was looking with through her eyes looking at the screen, because sometimes it would literally stop showing, like my sound. The recorder that I use. It stopped showing my sound. It just kind of. It just looked like it had no heartbeat because, you know, like the sound waves or whatever, so it goes by that. But it was looking like, you know, I had a heartbeat. So I thought I had paused and I thought everything I had said wasn't being recorded and I was just gonna be like, oh no, but I don't even remember.
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, so yeah, back to mind, body and spirit, a lot of things it all starts with there. It's all connected, so we know that. So when you find self-worth, everything else I'm about to speak about will literally fall right in line. So I'll bookmark that. So, knowing your worth in friendships, if you know, first of all, when you have a good mind, body and spirit, when you're at peace with that, you will be a good friend, regardless of the friend that you were in the past, and that will say a lot about you, because you know like you will have grown from the things that you were miserable about, um, envious of or just any little thing you have been, have grown for that once you get right with your self-worth, like I deserve more, I deserve this. I deserve that. And also because you know the person that you used to be, you don't deserve that person now in this era. Like we could talk about karma all day, but we could talk about when we take accountability from things, apologize and ask God for mercy and we move and we let it go into the universe and let God do his thing and just move on and really live in what we want to become.
Speaker 1:You will see that mind, body, spirit will change you into knowing your and it's all about just knowing your worth. Like I'm worth more than that, like something that's that's below me, that that doesn't need my attention. I feel good like it's okay to walk around with a silver spoon in your mouth after you done fed yourself and nurtured yourself with all this good energy and positive things and released and let that shit go of all them toxins and who you used to be. So it's always good to nourish yourself with a silver spoon. So if you ready to gloat in that and walk around like, yeah, I'm better than this or yeah, I'm better to put myself and I'm too good to put myself in situations that that require that type of energy, like you move different and that's called bossing up and that's one thing I spoke about in the last episode like more money solves problems. Like you ready to boss up, you ready to step into that different frequency, you ready to like like I'm too good for that? Been there, done that and a lot of people mean.
Speaker 1:And then that's when you hear the negative critiques about how hasaditi you are and how you should be humble, when in reality your success is making that person feel bad. So why do I have to be humble when I work hard to get to this place, to love myself, to block out all this negative energy, to not go down that road, to not keep making these same mistakes? Like, why do I have to be humble about that? Why can't I be like, why can't I gloat in my greatness, in my hard work, in my perseverance, and through my trials and tribulations, through my storm, I made it. Why can't I gloat? Why can't I feel good about that? Because I know at the end of the day, I'm gonna be good.
Speaker 1:You should, at every moment of your life rather that's with your friendships, relationships, yourself, like you should really sit down and know your fucking worth, because you're worthy like. No one deserves to be treated like shit. Friend, that's coming from a friend. That's coming from a relationship that, like, that's coming from all the way around. That's coming from you. We are our own worst enemy and people are going to treat us how we carry ourselves. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying every single person in the world is gonna love you. It's gonna glow on you because love is channeled through so many different ways. So, yes, we can actually look at it like, yeah, everybody's gonna love me because everybody is gonna love you.
Speaker 1:But sometimes that love isn't always positive love. And it's okay because you know you are good with who you are and you know what you walk and what you talk and what you about and what you can bring to the table. So therefore, you good, you ain't gonna worry about that. You ain't gonna worry about that small little, one little voice that's not rocking with how you rocking with yourself today or how you rocking as a friend, or how you rock like know your fucking worth. Stop being afraid to cut people off who aren't worthy to be around you. You can't keep allowing these people to come around in your space and fuck up your energy because they want some of the stars when in reality, they just need to sit their ass at the fuck home and worry about themselves and how to love themselves and become a better them so they can glow and walk around like yeah, yeah, on a hot horse. Everybody deserves that feeling in their life. Everybody deserves to feel confident and free in what they do and be true to who they are Every single body.
Speaker 1:Now I'm not going to sit on this podcast with y'all and cap Because of what I'm about to say and cap like I am just, you know, the most innocent lady in the world and I believe that every single body in the world is beautiful. No, because you got you the motherfuckers as ugly as I don't know what. Have y'all ever seen somebody that's like just damn that motherfucker ugly. But the way they walk in that room, you were never thinking and the first thing you a you A hating ass bitch gonna say is she thinks she the shit Versus a bitch, that's all about it. This like oh, bitch, that is how you work like work, work, work, like it's all about you. It like it brings out a different type of confidence in you. So if you know you pretty, or you know you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:I don't even talk about the girl, like let me just use like miss netta, for, uh, poor miss netta, I feel so bad. But you know what I'm saying. Like let's be, let's be for real, miss netta ain't nothing easy on the eyes. Let's say, miss netta, a bitch, walk in the room looking like miss netta, but walk in like bow. That confidence alone, honestly, is what drill your man away sometimes will drill your man away. I ain'm saying it like he is going to.
Speaker 1:I'm just saying like y'all know y'all done been cheated on with somebody who y'all ain't think was all that before, all that in the bag of chips. Sure have, because I know I done got cheated on with some bugaboo shit. But it's their confidence. Like it's their confidence and their self-love, like, yeah, bitch, I'm ugly, but guess what? It ain't going to stop me Because I love myself. Like these are the cards I got to deal with. I ain't got no choice but to love myself and I'm going to love me and your man going to love it too, and I'll be down, honey. I know y'all be like this. Be Not me doing a beat, cause I'm trying not to, cause I'm on episode 10.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna say like a few cuss words, but I know y'all like Girl, I know this girl and went on here and got on here and did all that motherfucking preaching Just to talk about some ugly motherfuckers. That's me y'all. That's me for it, honey. But guess what? Know your worth. Know your worth, honey. Know your worth. I know my worth and I ain't worth all that. It's all about how you come, how you coming. That's what that is to me. I am again so grateful for you guys, so grateful for you guys. Like I just can't believe, like this is episode 10, like I'm literally getting like the jitterballs or something I don't know. I don't know, and so many people also have reached out to me wanting to join my episodes or whatever, and I'm just so grateful for that. Like I can't wait. I can't wait for y'all to really truly get on here and pop y'all shit with me.
Speaker 1:Anyway, back to the subject. I had started chilling, I had started chilling, I had laid back, started chilling, but anyways, it's not much really more I could honestly say to y'all without sounding like I'm preaching, because obviously it sounds a whole lot easier than it truly is to sit, love yourself and know your fucking worth, because it's so many women out there they really don't know their worth and don't know and honestly, we forget something like the girls that do or that are aware of their worth. I'm not gonna say we forget, but we sometimes like lose our power within the daily obstacles that we go through. And that's the point of the girls restroom. Like I really I understand and I really do appreciate you all for who listen to me and you know, but I really would love for us to like read, read, like damn, what's the word honey? What would I like for us to do?
Speaker 1:I know y'all, like this bitch, I can tell lies, I need to show me a sweater and I'm nervous, but now I really would like for us to like interact, interact with each other. That's what I want. I want an interaction, I want some interaction, and I won't be satisfied until I get it. But, yeah, I really want the girls restroom too. I gotta figure out what exactly it is that I want to do, because I want to like wake up and remind y'all like I want this to really truly be a community.
Speaker 1:More so me just getting on here like rambling and, you know, getting into personal stories or just preaching to y'all. I'm not a freaking preacher, like you know. Like I'm an influencer, I'm gonna influence you guys to be a better you always, especially as women, because we need to stick together because we are the only ones in this world that can feel and know what we go through. Like you know, um, I'm a girl of many, many titles about myself, so I just kind of all like that was the whole point of me. Creating this sacred space was to get women interaction and really get different sides of the story. And, you know, just grow with other women, not just y'all hear me rant or, you know, feel comfortable. You know, shine away. Like I actually be wanting to hear some of y'all stories.
Speaker 1:We all come from, what y'all do, like how you felt about this, whether you agree or not, like or ask my opinion to go. You know, not like or ask my opinion to go. You know, not my opinion, but ask me to go a little bit deeper into things and, if you don't understand, to try to get an understanding. Like that's the whole purpose here. Like when we walk into the girls restroom, like that's how we're supposed to feel. You know that's the whole point.
Speaker 1:Um, I'm sorry y'all my baby, keep interrupting my podcast asking for some water chat. And I just don't understand why he keep asking for water at the nine o'clock and I know y'all like, damn girl, is you like a truck for mom? Do we need to call cps? That baby can't get no water, like I'm gonna average it. No, that ain't the case. The case is he don't like to get up in the middle of the night and go pee after he done had drunk all water all night. And who want to wake up to a piece of chow in the morning knowing that I gotta go to work and I'm already running off my last little 10 minutes, don't, nobody want to do that. And I know y'all like what girl, get up earlier. I already get up at five. What more do you want? I gotta get this episode out to you. I gotta you know, record late. I gotta get like I gotta get.
Speaker 1:I'm a single mom, just called out. I'm figuring it all out. I just told my whole life. So that's really how I feel. That's really how I feel about myself. But I'm super woman, baby, because I know my worth and it's all gonna get done. It's all gonna work out. So that's why it is he's not getting no more water after he gets on this time and he lucky he getting away with it now. But I'm too busy sitting here recording, so then for you he can get a little water too, are you done? Are you done? Hold on, y'all know your words, know your worth. Um, I really just want to go ahead and wrap it up here.
Speaker 1:It's episode 10. And then, to be very transparent, I'm getting so bored because I need me a co-host. I keep saying like, does anybody want to co-host with me? Does anybody want to come on for an episode? Come on, talk to me. And everybody's like, yes, let me get on it, let me do it. Oh, my God, let's rock it out, we're gonna get, we're gonna turn. Oh, let's turn up in the girls restroom. No one has came through yet.
Speaker 1:Also, too, I'm gonna let y'all know like I'm gonna be doing different things for this upcoming Era Of the girls restroom. We got one more episode To go, and actually I was gonna my next episode of this season. We only got one more episode of this season, um, and I'm chilling and tripping with y'all now Because this next episode Next week is gonna be Very, very heavy, just to let those you know, because this next episode next week is going to be very, very heavy. Just to let those you know know out there, a lot of people like to hear different things on podcasts and come to podcasts for different things. I want to give a shout out to my very first episode, which has the most freaking. Well, no, not my second episode, I'm sorry. Episode two has the most freaking streams and I'm so excited, like I'm really ready to get back into girl talk soon. That's not what the next episode is about. However, I am ready to get back into that era Because I see those are a lot of the topics that you guys like I'm ready to get on camera so y'all can actually see how fine y'all CEO Coco is, honey when she giving these little TED Talks. So I'm really excited about that. But we got one more episode in this season and next season.
Speaker 1:Baby, I'm going to manifest that I have me a co-host, even if they're not on every episode, just every other episode and different people too like hearing their opinions on things and blah, blah, blah and you know just ready to take this podcast shit to the next level and I do have a star that I will be who will be recording with me soon A couple of episodes. So, like, y'all going to get a lot of different voices and a lot of different, like people joining in and tuning in, and a lot of different voices and a lot of different like people joining in and tuning in, and a lot of interviews. I'm gonna be doing a lot of interviews, so if you know any small business owners out in dallas, texas or surrounding areas, um, hit me up, hit me up, don't be shy, and you want to get on here and you want, um, you know, talk about your brand, your business or whatever it is that you do. And then we get into some things and I have some questions and we play some little games. I'm ready for all that fun stuff. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:And then, like, I have different segments, of course, where I come in and I, you know, pick y'all nerves, pick y'all brain a little bit, pick at y'all emotions and get y'all all emotional and help y'all. Let go of all of that baggage that you're just holding on to. That's not worth of your good energy, so just please know your worth. I am getting a phone call too, and I'm going to answer while I'm here. Watch Some. Oh, motherfucker, hung up. He must have seen that mic in my hand and said oh no, I know that's right. Anyway, I love you guys. Know your worth, know how powerful you are, know how beautiful you are, know that you don't deserve anything less than perfect. And if perfect don't exist, make it exist in your world. Speaking of your world, let it be known that it is your world and don't take no bullshit because you don't deserve it. I love you all. I'm so appreciative of you and I will see y'all next week for the finale of the girls restroom season one. I love y'all.
Speaker 1:Oh, don't forget to go follow me on all platforms. I was gonna say this see, it's me trying to like wrap it up chat, but don't forget to follow me on my Instagram, on at the girls restroom. And, of course, y'all can follow me Coco the goats, and it is with an A, coco with an A, so K-O-K-O-A-T-H-A-G-O-A-T. But yeah, make sure y'all follow me on those platforms, because I am also in the middle of a rebrand, so a lot of my content With makeup and things of that sort Will only be on Coco the Goat's page and I will pin my podcast and, of course, promote it. However, I really want to just push my podcast and, of course, promote it.
Speaker 1:However, I really want to just push my podcast, um Instagram a lot more and get a lot of more reactions and things, and you know just two different fan bases and I just kind of want to separate the two now before I get too comfortable on my main page, because that's where all the action is. So make sure y'all do follow both pages if you like. If you want to, only, you know, follow one, whatever, but I'm grateful for both. But I do follow back. If your algorithm is gonna be what I want to see like, if, um, you know, if you're talking about sex and dicking balls all the time, I'm not going to follow you back, just be in.
Speaker 1:It's no shade. But it's because I, you know, I want to see some good stuff on my, on my timeline, like I don't want to talk about dicking balls all the time. So you, you know, it's just you. You know certain things for certain moments and I just want to really stay focused. So I really want things that's going to inspire me and motivate me every single day. Um, no shade if you post your children all day long. I don't want more kids. I don't want to see that all day long. You know I will post you on my other page and you know, let they do what they do, but sometimes on my main page, on my algorithm, I don't be want to see certain stuff. So I'm just being very transparent about that, all right, know your worth, know you the shit, know you always gonna be the shit and know that I love you, bitch, and I will see y'all later and meet y'all in the girls restroom.