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DATING IN DALLAS | Sex In THE City Diaries w/ KokoaThaGoat

• KokoThaGoat • Season 2 • Episode 2

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Welcome to the girls restroom. This is season two, episode two, and we gonna talk about dating and my dating life in Dallas and just dating in general. Not really necessarily me, because I'm letting y'all know right now I ain't that open where I just talk about everything like I'm open, like you know what I'm saying, but some stuff I like to keep to myself, because some stuff matters to me, some stuff is sacred. So the stuff that I'm putting out, I've learned my lesson from it. It was, it was what it, it is what it is. So yeah, and I also don't like getting on here like see, that's that soft part of me. I don't like getting, I don't like the feeling or, you know, like dissing people in a way. I really don't. I will go there, I think anybody will go there, but I don't, I don't like that, I don't like it. So yeah, just to throw that out there.

Speaker 1: 1:17

Um, so I did write a little prayer for my, my listeners who are listening in this episode, cause I really want the true intentions and everything to come out. So this is what I said I pray that before, all in all, you find self-love and peace with dating yourself and being alone. I pray that you never settle in with your personal morals. I pray you don't fumble anything good because you are blinded by what society portrays, with what dating actually is. I pray that anyone that comes your way comes with pure, clear intentions that are good, whether they are there alone time or even for fun time. Whether they are there alone, tom, or even for fun time, I pray that Tom is valued. I pray that your time is valued and not wasted, amen. So I put that out there to y'all and I really do truly pray that anyone you go out and date or anyone that comes around and date you, that you see it with an open eye, because it's time to just, you know, take care of ourselves so that we can see it coming and we can block it. It's time to build strength and become a warrior when it comes to protect themselves. So claps to that, claps to that.

Speaker 1: 2:47

So the definition of dating. Let's talk about it. So the definition of dating is an established or an ascertain the date of an object or event. It was how I read it y'all. Y'allall just heard me read, so y'all know I don't popcorn read, I'm sorry, I was like what okay? Or is to indicate or expose as being old-fashioned. So those that's like the definition of dating, right, so we're gonna start there.

Speaker 1: 3:20

I feel like, when it comes to dating, it's not going to be just. It don't have to be just. It is a stage to me, like, I feel like we are all like energy. We are all like energy and you just know when you're like attracted to an energy, just like you're attracted to a smell, or you're attracted to, you know, bright lights Like, you know sparkle, like, whether you like it or not, sometimes it shows an attraction. An attraction could be a good thing or a bad thing. So you know, because too much of something is never good enough for you. So, yeah, but, um, yeah, that's the definition of dating to me.

Speaker 1: 4:19

So dating I feel like I don't. I'm trying to think. I feel like, when it comes to dating, it could be simple, it could all be so simple, but I feel like we make it complicated. I feel like everybody makes it complicated nowadays and I feel like, um, we, when we hear dating, we hear I don't know, some people may hear I'm actually dating someone, some people here. I'm dating Like I'm putting a boundary on it, like I'm open still, like I'm still single, like I'm still single, but I'm dating people Like you, can date multiple people Like you. Know what I'm saying. I feel like when you're in a dating stage it doesn't come with a number. That's how I personally feel. I feel like you have not made a commitment of asking me to be your girlf